The romantic relationship involving guys and girls has existed perhaps as far as people had been established. The biblical story of Adam and Eve typifies the existence of such a partnership. Such interactions have existed all through the Paleolithic, Mesolithic and Neolithic evolutions of human existence.
This relationship typically can both be between
a spouse and wife, a brother and sister, or amongst a guy who has a wife and
other concubines and or in between a non-married man and other girls. Interactions
amongst gentlemen and their concubines have existed time immemorial and the diploma of acceptability of this sort of relationships change from
modern society to society.
In the sophisticated countries ‒ particularly
United states of america and Europe ‒ the partnership that
exists among married adult males and other non-married women are closely frowned
upon and has legal implications when this kind of gentlemen are located out by their wives.
However, in our section of the globe, although not lawfully and culturally
suitable, our society does not essentially spot punitive sanctions on a
married male who decides to have a mistress.
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In new moments, two videos have gone viral on
social media ‒ and that has got most
Ghanaians speaking about them. The initially was the leaked online video among Hon.
Albert Kan-Dapaah, who is the existing Nationwide Security Minister which went
viral on the 12th or 13th January 2020. The articles of
the movie appeared to be a private dialogue between him and his alleged ‘side
chick’ but unfortunately obtained its way into the general public domain. The next viral
video clip emerged on or about the 19th or 20th of this thirty day period.
In this distinct video, a bare chief is appeared to be exhibiting his manhood
to his alleged girlfriend.
Morally, I do not hold any code or yardstick
with which to evaluate anyone’s behaviour, but for a chief to cheapen himself to
the extent of exhibiting his manhood to his girlfriend in a video chat is underneath
the belt in my opinion. An action that hitherto has introduced the identify of his
stool into disrepute and that may warrant him getting destooled as a main. The
action of the chief in the online video is very abominable and very denigrating to
his person and pretty disgraceful to his subjects.
When concerns of this magnitude sprout, I tend to
question myself issues why would a guy of his status demonstrate off his manhood to
an additional girl in video chat? Why would the ladies also want this kind of video clips from adult males
of significant reputation? Are they the identical person who leaked the films? What is their
function? Why would a married guy of significant social standing choose to share his
naked impression with his ‘side chick’?
In the Hon. Kan-Dapaah’s video clip, there is practically nothing
as well denigrating about it, but I was very amazed why a lady could get a
whole Nationwide Stability Minister about and history the dialogue. When the
video went viral, most individuals suggested that Hon. Kan-Dapaah must resign from
his publish. I was 1 of the number of persons who supported that he ought to not resign.
In my candid opinion, it was a private dialogue in between a male and his
alleged girlfriend, which is a typical event involving men and girls throughout
I was of the view that the moment the conversation
bordered on his own lifetime and had almost nothing to do with his position, resignation
to me meant that adult males would turn out to be engendered species. His resignation,
consequently, would embolden other women to emulate same and that could make males
engendered species. As very long as this sort of conversations are private, if any lady
decides to blackmail or sell these kinds of movies for no matter what motive, and the movies go
viral, this sort of men need to not be created to resign unless of course the written content of the
conversation undermines their integrity and task function.
Wonderful gentlemen have fallen mainly because of their
association with women of all ages and history is replete with this kind of tales. Adam, the
very first guy, according to the Bible, was deceived by his wife Eve into eating the
forbidden fruit and thus going against God’s will and the consequent
punishment linked with it. King David, a man soon after God’s very own coronary heart, is said
to have lusted of his military officer Uraih’s wife, received captivated, ensured that
his officer was sent to the battlefield to battle at the entrance line just to get
him killed and annex his wife. He was punished by God for that. An additional terrific
gentleman who was fooled by his wife was Sampson. The story is advised that he unveiled
his mystery to his spouse Delilah. She subsequently utilised that in opposition to Sampson and
he lost his strength, was arrested and produced blind ‒ and
he died later on.
By D. C. Kwame Kwakye
The author is a broadcast journalist